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I’m Dalma Heyn, MSW., and I’ve been giving online counseling, dating advice and relationship help for years. As the author of three books on love, marriage and dating, and a guest on such shows as Oprah!, Larry King Live, The Charlie Rose Show and The View, I'm known to help clarify and untangle relationship puzzles. Let me be your online counselor!


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  • When You Don’t Know What To Do, Do Nothing

        In the last few days, I’ve had no fewer than eight conversations with people who feel so stressed–financially, emotionally, relationally–that  they literally don’t  know how to proceed. Feeling hamstrung (now there’s a word that says it perfectly) by circumstances, they all said they felt they’re going down the tubes.      It’s an amazingly tough time. Something feels evil in the air–some [...]

  • Love in the Time of Marketing

    When Steve Jobs, Apple’s chief executive, addressed the iPhone 4’s antenna problems last Friday, problems causing many owners to experience dropped calls, he offered them and prospective consumers three choices. Those who haven’t yet bought the phone can get free bumpers, cases which Apple says help reduce the problem of dropped calls, when they purchase [...]

  • The Entitlement Problem

    Dear Goddess: I’m what they would call a “high-achieving” woman in my 30s, fit and with several degrees, looking for a man who would describe himself similarly. Actually, many men DO describe themselves similarly on the net, but alas, are not any of the above. I feel I deserve a man who has  worked as [...]

  • A Stepmother Before Her Time

    Dear Goddess: For six months, while my boyfriend is traveling on an important assignment, I’ve been taking care of his seven-year-old child, Stephen, much of the time. His mother is very ill, and it has fallen to me to do the stuff like picking him up from school, getting his lunches ready– you know. I adore [...]

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    Dalma Heyn – The Love Goddess

    Many of you already know my books: The Erotic Silence of The American Wife, Marriage Shock: The Transformation of Women into Wives and Drama Kings: The Men Who Drive Strong Women Crazy.

    And if you do know my work, you know how much I believe that each woman must look deep inside herself to write her own script for lasting happiness in love. Here’s an excerpt of a talk I gave recently that explores this idea.

    http://www.youtube.com/dalmaheyn

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